Sitting on the edge of his fire was a blackened coffeepot. It was a daily ritual, making and drinking coffee. A foot from the fire, resting on the ground, was his coffee mug. He drank from it regularly throughout the day. Every day.”
Sitting on the edge of his fire was a blackened coffeepot. It was a daily ritual, making and drinking coffee. A foot from the fire, resting on the ground, was his coffee mug. He drank from it regularly throughout the day. Every day.”
What a man knows isn’t important. It’s what he is that counts.”
–Jack Schaefer (Shane)
“Yet I am confident I will see the Lord’s goodness while I am here in the land of the living.”
–Psalm 27:13 (NLT)
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There are many things that I do not understand and the older I get it seems as if there are more of them. I don’t understand when people say, “adulting is hard,” or “I have to adult today.” Grow up! A couple of years back I responded to someone on Facebook who I thought I knew. Through their high school years they were one of the “whining babies” but a good student. They wrote a whining note on Facebook to which I responded, “Get a life,” and received a scathing letter on messenger on her behalf. Another one I hear quite a bit, “I’m so stressed out.” My mercy, do you not have the Holy Spirit living within you?
I read the words of Jesus, “The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.” (John 10:10, NKJV) More abundantly, not stress, not worry, but abundant life is through Jesus. The abundant life that gives salvation, nourishment to our souls, healing for our bodies and minds, strength to face the problems of the day and life. Why then do we whine and whimper?
Perhaps it is because we try to do everything in our own strength; we forget that we belong to the Lord. Our confidence is in ourselves and when we fail, well, some just fall apart. Shame… Because of Christ and the Holy Spirit living within us and guiding us we should have confidence to face each day, to face each problem, to climb over each obstacle. In Christ life is good. That does not mean that everything in life is good. Someone wrote, “Life is composed of both joys and sorrows, triumphs and defeats. Yet when we consider all the experiences of life in relation to our love for God, life as a whole works out for our good.” Paul reminds us, “And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.” (Romans 8:28, NKJV) Grab hold of those first few words–“We know that all things…”.
I know of those who say that we can make it. Have confidence in yourself; pull yourself up; take one more step. Listen, without Christ that is a recipe for failure. Oh, yes, we are to have confidence, but our hope is in the Lord. We should have confidence–faith and trust–in our heavenly Father. He is the One who has our future in His hands. He is the One in whom we can depend. Therefore, put your confidence in Him. “Success or failure is not measured by a few outstanding or disappointing days, but by all the days of our life.” (Elijah A. Cockman)
Quit being a whining baby! Be a man or woman of God! Stand firm, and when having done all, continue to stand. (Ephesians 6:13) Listen, through the exercise of our faith, God will take the events of each day and work them for our good. But we must trust and not doubt. We are to be joyful and not murmur. Perhaps we should recall what happened to all the whining babies that Moses had to deal with. If I recall rightly, they all died in the wilderness except the two who had faith–Joshua and Caleb. Live your life abundantly in Christ. The words of Thoro Harris should be ours as well:
“Are you trusting Jesus, All along the way?
Does He grow more precious To your heart each day?
Are you His disciple?
Test His Word and see,
He will give the Spirit more abundantly.”
People who search for their past, forgetting the importance of living now, lose their future.”
–Donald L. Robertson (Forgotten Season)
“But first and most importantly seek (aim at, strive after) His kingdom and His righteousness [His way of doing and being right—the attitude and character of God], and all these things will be given to you also.”
–Matthew 6:33(Amplified)
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One more look at the duty of the Father (and Mother) and the listening requirements of the child — call it Proverbs 4:1-9, part two. This morning we focus on verses 5-9.
5 — Get wisdom! Get understanding! Do not forget, nor turn away from the words of my mouth.
6 — Do not forsake her, and she will preserve you; love her, and she will keep you.
7 — Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom. And in all your getting, get understanding.
8 — Exalt her, and she will promote you; she will bring you honor, when you embrace her.
9 — She will place on your head an ornament of grace; a crown of glory she will deliver to you. (NKJV)
The ESV translates verse 5, “Get wisdom; get insight; do not forget, and do not turn away from the words of my mouth.” So many roll their eyes when their parents begin to tell them the way to walk. Old fogeys, they think. Shame–instead they should listen, take it to heart. There are many needs that begin with life and will not cease until death. One of the primary ones is to get wisdom. Without wisdom how will the needs and issues of life be dealt with?
Wisdom is valuable; it is precious. Think of the words of Jesus, “Again, the kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field, which a man found and hid; and for joy over it he goes and sells all that he has and buys that field. Again, the kingdom of heaven is like a merchant seeking beautiful pearls, who, when he had found one pearl of great price, went and sold all that he had and bought it.” (Matthew 13:44-46, NKJV) Wisdom is one of those pearls. True wisdom is rare and precious.
With wisdom we have that inner voice which will guide us if we remain true to God’s instruction, His words of wisdom. Dan Dick states, “Doing what we know to be right offers not only freedom from guilt, but also a joy which comes forth from our soul.” Be wise then and your soul will be kept. Those words of verse 6 could be translated, “she will stand sentry over you.” Wisdom will help guard us. The words of Samuel Miller carry much truth, “Each wise thing that we do makes us wiser.”
The principal thing! Get it, hold it, live by it. “Real wisdom is the knowledge of God and all His handiworks.” (Dick) Therefore we must start with God. We are given life to enjoy; it is a gift from God, but to enjoy it we must first come to Him. We must enjoy life with godly wisdom, not with man’s. “Weeds and thistles only will be the spontaneous produce if the ground is not broken up and good seed sown.” (Horne) Let true, godly wisdom be the seed that is sown in your life, and when that happens “the pleasures of wisdom exceed all others–in kind, degree, and duration.” (Horne)
Which is it that you seek? Fame or honor? Wisdom will bring honor but not necessarily fame. Fame is loud and noisy applause while honor is silent and internal homage. Oh, with honor may come a measure of fame, but that is not what is sought in the heart of the prudent. “Fame floats on the breath of the multitude; honor rests on the judgment of the thinking.” (Blair) Fame is awards and congratulations while honor seeks the will of God.
As mentioned in yesterday’s writing, there are two major problems: Fathers are not teaching properly (or at all), and children are not listening. There is a world of hurt and evil out there for the one who does not heed the voice and words of the heavenly Father. Perhaps the real problem is as J. Vernon McGee states, “The real difficulty is that in man there is not that love and longing for God and for the things of God.”
Let the sign speak to you. They have much to tell you, but you must look, listen, and learn.”
–B.N. Rundell (Last Chance Gulch)
“It is better to listen to rebuke from a wise person than to listen to the song of fools.”