People who search for their past, forgetting the importance of living now, lose their future.”
–Donald L. Robertson (Forgotten Season)
“But first and most importantly seek (aim at, strive after) His kingdom and His righteousness [His way of doing and being right—the attitude and character of God], and all these things will be given to you also.”
–Matthew 6:33(Amplified)
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One more look at the duty of the Father (and Mother) and the listening requirements of the child — call it Proverbs 4:1-9, part two. This morning we focus on verses 5-9.
5 — Get wisdom! Get understanding! Do not forget, nor turn away from the words of my mouth.
6 — Do not forsake her, and she will preserve you; love her, and she will keep you.
7 — Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom. And in all your getting, get understanding.
8 — Exalt her, and she will promote you; she will bring you honor, when you embrace her.
9 — She will place on your head an ornament of grace; a crown of glory she will deliver to you. (NKJV)
The ESV translates verse 5, “Get wisdom; get insight; do not forget, and do not turn away from the words of my mouth.” So many roll their eyes when their parents begin to tell them the way to walk. Old fogeys, they think. Shame–instead they should listen, take it to heart. There are many needs that begin with life and will not cease until death. One of the primary ones is to get wisdom. Without wisdom how will the needs and issues of life be dealt with?
Wisdom is valuable; it is precious. Think of the words of Jesus, “Again, the kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field, which a man found and hid; and for joy over it he goes and sells all that he has and buys that field. Again, the kingdom of heaven is like a merchant seeking beautiful pearls, who, when he had found one pearl of great price, went and sold all that he had and bought it.” (Matthew 13:44-46, NKJV) Wisdom is one of those pearls. True wisdom is rare and precious.
With wisdom we have that inner voice which will guide us if we remain true to God’s instruction, His words of wisdom. Dan Dick states, “Doing what we know to be right offers not only freedom from guilt, but also a joy which comes forth from our soul.” Be wise then and your soul will be kept. Those words of verse 6 could be translated, “she will stand sentry over you.” Wisdom will help guard us. The words of Samuel Miller carry much truth, “Each wise thing that we do makes us wiser.”
The principal thing! Get it, hold it, live by it. “Real wisdom is the knowledge of God and all His handiworks.” (Dick) Therefore we must start with God. We are given life to enjoy; it is a gift from God, but to enjoy it we must first come to Him. We must enjoy life with godly wisdom, not with man’s. “Weeds and thistles only will be the spontaneous produce if the ground is not broken up and good seed sown.” (Horne) Let true, godly wisdom be the seed that is sown in your life, and when that happens “the pleasures of wisdom exceed all others–in kind, degree, and duration.” (Horne)
Which is it that you seek? Fame or honor? Wisdom will bring honor but not necessarily fame. Fame is loud and noisy applause while honor is silent and internal homage. Oh, with honor may come a measure of fame, but that is not what is sought in the heart of the prudent. “Fame floats on the breath of the multitude; honor rests on the judgment of the thinking.” (Blair) Fame is awards and congratulations while honor seeks the will of God.
As mentioned in yesterday’s writing, there are two major problems: Fathers are not teaching properly (or at all), and children are not listening. There is a world of hurt and evil out there for the one who does not heed the voice and words of the heavenly Father. Perhaps the real problem is as J. Vernon McGee states, “The real difficulty is that in man there is not that love and longing for God and for the things of God.”